Purposely
You have a unique God-given reason for being on this earth. Imagine how easy it would be to make decisions if we all knew what our unique purpose should look like in every season of life. Your role in God’s bigger story for the here and now. Yes, even those of us who living or moving into middle age. What does purpose look like now?
Do we need a sense of purpose, or should we just sit back and enjoy life? For young adults, the world and their possibilities seem wide open—college students embark on a career path, and young parents start their families. How do we find a sense of purpose after we’ve had a career and raised our children? Though purpose may seem like it belongs in the realm of the young, evidence is mounting that having a purpose is just as important throughout one’s lifespan, in every season of life.
Food for thought: Don’t turn off my younger friends, time does march on and eventually you’ll in the 50 and older crowd.
We as Christians believe that if we are still breathing we have a purpose. We have a meticulous, focused, and intentional God and He has a plan and purpose for us in every season of life. Researchers are finding strong associations between having a purpose in life in adulthood and better physical health and well-being down the road. Their findings point to the need to foster and live purpose as older adults, especially in those who may find themselves adrift after children move away or post-retirement.
Since I have retired I have written a book, launched my ministry in a new city, and expand my speaking opportunity. I am still living and growing in my purpose for this stage of life!
How is your purpose showing up in your life right now? Are motivated to use your gift for others and to glorify your Father in heaven?
How to foster purpose in midlife
- Adjust your attitude – It all starts with getting yourself in the right frame of mind. It is an opportunity to grow but don’t let the pressure to find your purpose instill fear of failing to derail you. It’s a learning process so give yourself some grace, have fun, and experiment along the way.
- Find your go-to – Most people, whether they realize it or not, are drawn to particular subjects, foods, books, movies, and even types of people. What is happening in your church for your age group? If nothing going on, think about starting a next-generation group. Talk to friends about themes and explorations and how might build on them going forward.
- Start fresh – If you’re tired of the same ole, same ole, perhaps it’s time to switch things up. It can be invigorating to try new things like joining a club, learning a new skill or language, or approaching a familiar task in a different way. You never know what opportunities may come to you when you put yourself out there.
- Make a difference – For many, there’s nothing that warms your heart more than helping someone else. It can certainly give you purpose and can quickly become a passion. Schools are always looking for help, theater groups, don’t forget about the Girls and Boys Clubs.
- Call on your inner child – There’s rarely a time when you’re truer to yourself than in childhood. Think back to what brought you the most joy; What did the 8-year-old want to do? You may be surprised to find that your purpose has been waiting for you all these years!
If you need some help exploring or getting started discovering your purpose for this season of life email me and we’ll set up a time to chat at ministry@sheilaarringtonministries.org
Beloved, fall is approaching fast and we are planning some great things in the Purposely Designed Facebook Group. In October we will host an author to share tips and resources on writing a book.
